Plan for Your Safety
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- Consider your options in an emergency situation. Will you be able to stay with a friend? Can you go to a domestic violence
safe house?
- When safety is an issue, avoid any room without an easy exit, such as a bathroom. Know your escape routes: example,
which doors, windows, stairways, etc. make the best escape routes.
- If you can, talk with a neighbor about the violence so he/she can
call the police if a domestic violence situation occurs.
- Have a signal ready to use with your children, family or neighbors when the
police need to be called.
- Have your children know what to do and where to go so they will be safe during a domestic violence situation.
- Find
someone you trust. Collect and store with the person you trust clothing for yourself and children, extra keys, medicines, prescription
drugs, copies of important papers, phone and address books, etc., to be used if you must leave quickly.
- Always keep and have ready
a shelter and/or hotline number. Call 911 for emergency assistance or transportation.
Legal
- To hopefully further increase your
safety, consider obtaining a domestic abuse restraining order.
- Know that the threat of physical violence and/or physical violence
is a crime. Call 911 if you feel your in danger.
- Keep a restraining order with you at all times. Give someone you trust
a copy of the restraining order, and, if possible the local police.
- Have an answering machine, caller id, or someone you trust screen
your telephone calls. Keep records of all calls.
- If the restraining order is violated the police should be called immediately.
- Inform
family, friends, neighbors, and co-workers that you have a restraining order and your partner is restricted from contact with you.
Home
- There
are things that you can do for additional safety at home; install an alarm system, change locks, install safety devices on windows
and doors/sliding doors, add to or install outdooe lighting.
- Inform neighbors, landlord, family, friends that your abuser no longer
lives with you and they should call policeif they see your abuser near your home.
Work
- Someone at work should be advised of your situation
along with the picture of the abuser. This can be your boss, the personnel department, and building security.
- When leaving work,
have someone escort you to your car or bus and wait with you until you are safely en-route. Also vary the routes you take to
go home.